Bottle-feeding: "Will I not have the same bond with my baby?"

Bottle feeding: “Will I not have the same bond with my baby?”

Is bottle-feeding a worthwhile option? Could it harm your bond with your baby?

From the Women's Unit of the Ruber International Hospital we propose a reflection: How can it be that the lactation increasingly generates more unease and controversy, even fear, in mothers, being such a natural, instinctive and wonderful act?

Breastfeeding is very beneficial. However, the pressure women are under often leads to frustration when they cannot or simply do not want to opt for this option exclusively.

Common reasons for choosing artificial breastfeeding

On the part of the baby

A weak sucking reflex –very common in premature babies-,
weight loss or insufficient weight gain
and any health problem that requires you to remain in the hospital.

On the distaff side

Low production of breast milk – hypogalactia-,
the intake of medications that can significantly alter the quality of milk
or problems related to the mammary glands – inverted nipple, inflammation or cracks-
and also the need to return to work soon.

Whatever the reason behind this decision, the formula milk currently on the market provides all the nutrients babies need for optimal development. Therefore, mothers can rest assured with this decision. effective and safe alternative.

Artificial breastfeeding and emotional bonding

Elena Iracheta, clinical psychologist of the Women's Unit, states that “The emotional bond between mother and child goes far beyond feeding.”. It also emphasizes the importance of the mother perceiving the support of her environment without feeling prejudiced through “stigmatizing phrases.” By this term, we mean phrases like, "You won't have the same bond with your baby," "You won't feed him the same," or "You won't get your figure back the same way," etc.

These statements fail to take into account that what will truly impact the baby is the mother's well-being. Furthermore, This bond “is achieved through physical contact, smell and caresses, tenderness and affection.” Therefore, even when formula feeding is the only viable option, the baby's physical well-being—in terms of nutrition and nutrient intake—will be guaranteed, as well as its emotional and affective well-being.

Bottle feeding: “Will I not have the same bond with my baby?”