Bottle-feeding: "Will I not have the same bond with my baby?"

Bottle feeding: “Will I not have the same bond with my baby?”

Is bottle-feeding a worthwhile option? Could it harm your bond with your baby? From the Women's Unit of the Ruber International Hospital we propose a reflection: How can it be that the lactation Why is breastfeeding, such a natural, instinctive, and wonderful act, increasingly generating unease, controversy, and even fear among mothers? Breastfeeding is very beneficial. However, the pressure women are often subjected to generates frustration when they cannot or simply do not want to opt for this option exclusively.

Common reasons for choosing artificial breastfeeding

On the part of the baby

A weak sucking reflex –very common in premature babies-,
weight loss or insufficient weight gain
and any health problem that requires you to remain in the hospital.

On the distaff side

Low production of breast milk – hypogalactia-,
the intake of medications that can significantly alter the quality of milk
or problems related to the mammary glands – inverted nipple, inflammation or cracks-
and also the need to return to work soon.

Whatever the reason behind this decision, the formula milk currently on the market provides all the nutrients babies need for optimal development. Therefore, mothers can rest assured with this decision. effective and safe alternative.

Artificial breastfeeding and emotional bonding

Elena Iracheta, a clinical psychologist at the Women's Unit, states that "the emotional bond between mother and child goes far beyond feeding ." She also emphasizes the importance of mothers feeling supported by those around them without being judged by "stigmatizing phrases." By this, she means phrases like: "You won't have the same bond with your baby," "You won't feed him the same way," or "You won't get your figure back in the same way," etc.

These statements fail to consider that what will truly impact the baby is the mother's well-being. Furthermore, this bond "is achieved through physical contact, scent, caresses, tenderness, and affection." Therefore, even when formula feeding is the only viable option, the baby's physical well-being—in terms of nutrition and nutrient intake—will be guaranteed, as well as their emotional and affective well-being.

Bottle feeding: “Will I not have the same bond with my baby?”